Strategist in the Spouse palace – meaning in a Purple Star chart

· Strategist + Moon in the Spouse palace — your partner is refined and amorous, but their moods are unstable.

· Strategist in the Spouse palace — your partner changes often; coming together and parting is Strategist's nature.

· Strategist most fears meeting Earth Void and Earth Robbery — feelings are hollow and unreal, and hard to bring into reality.

· Complete Book, Volume 2, section on Wives and Concubines: “The Strategist suits a person who is strong and firm when young; the wife can match the husband, and should be older; adding the Ram Blade, Hindrance, Fire Star and Bell Star, it governs separation in life, and marrying late is good.”

· Traditional reading by palace [school tradition, awaiting verification]: “The Strategist’s other half has many thoughts and needs space.”

· Traditional judgment [school tradition, awaiting verification]: “The Strategist guarding the Spouse palace should marry late; marrying early brings many changes.”

My advice: start a family a little later. Give each other more time to confirm; the old books say that with Strategist in the Spouse palace you should marry a wife who is younger and firmer in character, and that this actually suits you; this is for reference, not a hard condition. When living together, say directly what you think in your heart, and do not count on the other person to guess. When the two of you discuss things, set a rule: whoever comes up with an idea takes responsibility for the first step, so just do it first and work it out afterwards. In daily life arrange many small things to do together, such as cooking, going for walks or taking a trip; relying on conversation alone cannot support a relationship.

My advice: marry a little later. The old books say that with Strategist in the Spouse palace the husband should be older than you; finding someone a little older makes living together smoother, but this is for reference, not a hard condition. When living together, if you are unsure in your heart, ask directly, and do not make up reasons in your head on the other person's behalf. Settle the division of work in advance: whoever raises a matter takes responsibility for the first step, so just do it first. Arrange many everyday tasks to do together, such as cooking, walking and taking a trip together; these hold a relationship steady far better than discussing the relationship again and again.